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1LP Vinyl

How To Forget is Paul Bender at his bravest and most vulnerable, but always willing to search for answers as he works through his pain and finds catharsis. “The ambiguity of whether the title How To Forget is a prescription of action or a lingering question is something I think about. The reality is that it is both, and simultaneously neither,” he explains. “I don’t think it’s ever possible to truly forget the most significant relationships in our lives, at least never completely.” He realizes this throughout the album, as he moves from questioning the past to learning how to accept it and grow with it. How To Forget is a meditation on relationships, yes, but it’s also about the self, a celebration of being halved and slowly finding a way to piece yourself together again.

How To Forget by Paul Bender